For one thing women are always playing and reacting with their emotions. We test all the time. “No” often means yes and “Yes” translates to no. Go figure us out. There is no logic behind it at all. We check if you get the bite. And if you don’t we aim and activate our competitive dominant component to trigger explosive mix. We are full of charms.
I always question if we dress really for ourselves, men or other women?
Wearing provocative uncensored clothes definitely get us some attention as well it may get us in trouble. Perhaps its all about the mind game, teasing on and power play. Image is often powerful but superficial at the same time. After all we get judged daily as “we are what we wear”.
It was hard to keep a poker face while playing cards with my funny pal Carolina. We both dressed in Dolce & Gabbana black and ivory pant suits and Christian Louboutin black pumps while concentrating on our winnings. The only game we decided to play for a day was game of being ourselves!
I couldn’t ask for a better way to start this weekend then spending it with two crazy sexy soul sisters Gabrielle Bernstein and Kris Carr. With the physical and virtual attendance roughly under 1700 in Y Kaufman Concert Hall in NYC I have to say it was a dream gathering of the most stylish and beautiful blondes Bergdorf could ever wish for. We started this exciting evening with short 2 minutes meditation followed by a prayer to reenergize the room and shift its awareness. With no time to waste sexy crazy gals “cut to the chase” instantly moving us to a spiritual bubble.
I was on the mission within those 2 powerful hours to find my quest to claim freedom. Mysteriously my internal voice got completely lost in the big overcrowded room looking for my seat to kick me right where I needed to be awaken. There were so many awesome lessons to learn, expand the mind, and take notes from those two beautiful souls. I wept with joy!
The circulating energy was so vibrant mixed with lots of emotions as personal stories were shared. This was a proper outlet to focus, nod, sporadically whistle allowing the miracles to be scattered. I felt as Kriss was talking just to me. How possibly could she have read my mind knowing what I was going through or how I felt. I didn’t say a word. With her sexy crazy metallic sparkling stilettos she span her magic getting everyone’s undivided attention and lots of applause. Kris talked with so much authority, wisdom, compassion and uncensored humor. And just like a sage with her magic wand transformed and nurtured every present soul in the room. This was my AHA moment when I realized that we are all in it together. We go through same range of emotions, feelings, disappointments, regrets, thoughts and have millions of identical unanswered questions. We tirelessly exhaust questioning our calling ignoring a real urge to exercise our flabby faith muscle.
Adding pinch of joy in simple pleasure boosts our comfort creating our best madison. Because the only way to measure our success would be knowing how much fun we are actually having. When talking about how we compare ourselves to people Kris Carr says,
“stars don’t compare themselves to other stars.” “Let go of the pressure you put on yourself to succeed.”
Turning to nature is the best band-aid for our let downs. Working with compassion starts with ourselves first. It’s a pre-show to forgiveness. This is not a time neither our place to look for guilty or blame anyone. We are the authors of our stories that can be re-written at any time.
As Sexy gal says “the only time you can change someone is when they are in diapers”
This guidance and love exchange released a lot of of my patterns and lead me to actively think and look for certain things. Because when you think you create. Taking baby steps, being patient and doing it well it’s a promising beginning. And you guessed it I am opening all the doors wide inviting miracles to happen! One door and miracle at the time.
Thank you Chris Carr and Gabrielle Bernstein for pointing to that right door!
P.S. As always I would like to hear from you if you believe in miracles? Share your comments thoughts and suggestions with the rest of us.
1.Squat in luxury crazy shopping – that immediately will start turning guys heads
2. Look out for potentially cozy new apartment to rent or buy with incredible 5 staraccommodation with 24 hour service and good looking doormen who will carry your bags. For help you can refer to http://www.onefinestay.com
3. Once you are in your dream place throw a Surprise Party!
4. Immediately plan your next exotic trip to places like: Bally, Maldives, Fiji, or Hawaii. Somewhere you can fell in love with nature and exhale freely. Follow the dictates of your heart and lift your feet off the ground.
5. Learn how to speak fluent French or Italian in 3 months – Its possible try suggestopedia or superlearning. It will come handy on your next trip.
Blame it all on cold winter season as we cover ourselves warmly in finest shearling, jackets and coats. Just before the snow was about to hit the city I spend a cold afternoon in the park looking for sunny spots. It was fun to enjoy the last moments of late Fall breeze along with blending in with beautiful Central Park nature this time of the year.
Nature can be such an inspiration to follow up with adequate color palette, and layers. Even if you don’t realize it, you are always influenced by what is around you. I love softness of beiges, camels, cognacs, golds, creams, winter whites, chocolate browns all marching in perfect harmony. It seemed like a neutral step to put Escada cognac shearling jacket paired with Gucci camel tussle skirt for the upcoming brunch and meeting, that day.
P.S. As always I would like to hear from you how do you cope with low temperatures and snow? What do you like to wear this winter season to stay warm and chic? Share with the rest of us your comments, tips, and suggestions.